Monday, December 31, 2007

New Year's Eve Celebrations

New Year's Eve is not a big spashy affair with us. Over our many years together, we have gone out a couple of times. But usually we spend a quiet evening at home with family. This year, just 2 of us.

We have "The Future File" which John pulls out every New Year's Eve. Every year, we make a list of our favourite memories from the year, our biggest surprise of the year, and our predictions for the coming year. Then every year, we look back on our previous memories. Everyone who spends the evening with us joins in, so we also have a record of who we spent each New Year's Eve with. (we even took the file with us one year when we went out for dinner)We've been doing this for 15 years and it's a wonderful memory keeper.

When the evening is done, the file gets put away and stays hidden until the next New Year's Eve.

Happy New Year!

Sunday, December 30, 2007

Memories of Christmas Present - Part 2

Christmas morning was quiet around our place. It's very different when you don't have little ones around. We exchange stocking stuffers with John's kids so we get lots of nice little surprises in our stockings. I must have been a good girl this year. Look at what Santa left me in my stocking:


Hope John doesn't get jealous. But if he does, he has no one to blame but himself. We bought ourselves a GPS in November and agreed not to exchange presents.

A teddy bear ornament given to me by John several years ago. I love teddy bears.

In the afternoon, John's daughter and grandson (Mr.J) joined us. After opening presents, and a nap for Mr. J, the five of us headed over to Cody's dad's place (yes, my ex) for Christmas dinner.

The first ornament Cody ever made me...when he was 3.

We are so very lucky to be close friends with Ian and his wife Diane. It was a lovely Christmas dinner. The only bad thing about it was that it was at someone else's home...no leftovers for us! (we love turkey, and the home made turkey soup I make the next day). Not to worry...we're going to cook our own turkey on our Big Green Egg on New Year's Day.


I hope all of you had a very special holiday season, however you celebrate.

Saturday, December 29, 2007

Memories of Christmas Present - Part 1

Our family celebrations start off on December 23rd every year....John's birthday. When he was growing up, he thought having a birthday on the 23rd of December was a downer because he never got a birthday present. When he was young, a hockey stick for Christmas was cause for celebration. Christmas Day would be spent on the frozen lake playing hockey with his mom in goal and 3 brothers.

But, skipping ahead a few years...now a birthday on the 23rd is a good thing because at least one of "the kids" is home for Christmas and therefore able to join in the birthday celebration. Now the best gift we can receive is our family home visiting. This year, only Cody could make it home. But the three of us had a fine afternoon and dinner.

We picked Cody up at the train station at 3:00 and arrived home to find the kitchen in a bit of disarray. It seems that Cassie was a little upset at being left behind, and managed (I don't know how) to pull things from the top of a cabinet. If you have been reading this blog, you know that we have learned that the kitchen counter is fair game for Cassie. Now we also know that the top of our pantry cabinet is also fair game. She (along with a little help from some friends named Mulligan and Cinder) ate a 2 pound bag of flour, a box of baker's chocolate, and a bag of dried cranberries...all complete with packaging. Yes, I know chocolate is toxic for dogs. I was very worried, but no one seemed to have any ill effects (although there was plenty of outside excursions the following day).

After the clean up (welcome home Cody!) we decorated the tree. Cody put the finishing touch on the top...
Time for John's birthday dinner...starting with home made carrot soup. The next course was a spinich salad with warmed apples baked in maple syrup and balsamic vinegar dressing. The main course: baked ham, cheese & brocolli scalloped potatoes, and a mixture of green & yellow beans & carrots. And for dessert...
A two layer home made chocolate fudge cake with a mint flavoured whipped cream layer in the centre. Topped with a chocolate glaze and crushed candy canes...and a dollop of whipped cream. I'm not fond of cooking (John looks after that very well on most days!) but I love making John's birthday dinner. Maybe not so much talent goes into the meal, but lots of love. Since I know he reads my blog...Happy Birthday John! You are my partner, my love, and my life. Thanks for sharing your birthdays...and all the days between...with me.

Friday, December 28, 2007

December 27th musings

I lost my sister to cancer 3 years ago yesterday. There was a 14 year age difference between us, so I didn't know her very well when I was young. She moved away from home before I hit my teenage years. However, we became quite close as we grew older.

She was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer on September 27th, 2004 and passed away peacefully at home exactly 3 months later. I am forever thankful to her husband for taking leave from his job to look after her so that she could spend her last few weeks in her own home.

I have had a tin full of her costume jewelry in storage in our basement. For some reason, I brought it upstairs a couple of months ago and it has been sitting on my desk ever since. Every so often, I'll open the lid. The smell of her perfume is still there after all this time. (a very unique scent called Tabu that I've never know anyone else to wear).

Then through the wonderful world of blogs, I discovered a woman in California that makes wonderful jewelry. I contacted Jamie, and she has agreed to work with Dorian's costume jewelry to make some new pieces for me. I am thrilled! I love Jamie's sense of style. Her etsy shop is Simply Me Art...."traveling back in time at the same time looking at a beautiful moment in the now"

Stay tuned to see what Jamie creates for me.

Yesterday was also a bit sad because Cody left us to return to his new home in Toronto. Since we will be moving far, far away in 2008 all of his things are gone from his room....either to his new home in Toronto, or to storage at his dad's place. So there is nothing left of him here but photos and memories. Saying goodbye yesterday was tough.

But. I'll be seeing him again in Toronto before we leave. And he's always in my heart and on my mind.

He left me a gift on my Beetle, which I didn't see until this morning when I walked down our driveway to get our morning paper.
A smiley face...his signature trademark. A very good way to start my day.

Monday, December 24, 2007

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas from the Harley crew
We wish everyone a joyful Christmas, and Very Happy New Year!

From left to right: Mulligan, Cassie, John, Sara, Cody (holding Phantom) and Cinder.

Sunday, December 23, 2007

Close only counts in horse shoes

Actually, I'm not sure if that saying is correct...close only counts in horse shoes. I've never actually played the game.

As I mentioned in an earlier post, we had our first showing 6 days ago. The same people came back for a second viewing just a day later. That went very smoothly on our side, since we had done a mad cleaning the day before. Just another quick vacuum, and I had time to wash the wood floors. We packed up the 3 dogs and cat into one car and John and I went for a drive and had a nice lunch while our crew waited in the car. (we were told they wanted 1 1/2 hours for their second viewing).

We were terribly excited. Well, I was terribly excited. John was a little more practical about the whole thing. According to our agent, we were in "the top two".

Well, we came in second. We took a drive by the house that won the competition and we couldn't understand the decision...but then again, I guess we might be just a little biased?

And now we wait again. Hopefully it won't be another 2 months before we have another showing. Still positive. It WILL happen!

Monday, December 17, 2007

Picture This

We had a major snowstorm yesterday...the largest snowfall for that day since 1977. This morning was sort of a lazy morning. John brought me coffee in bed (yes, I know...I'm a very lucky lady). So, I drank my coffee and read my book in lazy contentment knowing I didn't have to go anywhere for a few hours.

Later, after feeding dogs....eating breakfast...reading the paper....I was sitting at my computer reading some of my favourite blogs and drinking coffee. It was 10:30 and I hadn't showered yet. The phone rings, and it's a real estate office...they want to come and show the house at 12:30.

12:30!!

Of course, I said yes. This would be our first showing.

But. I had a lunch appointment in Ottawa (a 40 minute drive) with a friend at 12:30. I still had to shower. And the house was a disaster. (we had let things slide a bit thinking that no one would want to see the house until after Christmas) Yikes!

What to do? First, I told John about it and that I was going into "panic mode". Then, I phoned my friend and changed the lunch date to 1:00. John did a major vacuum and I ran around doing the rest. I put the dirty pots from the sink into the dishwasher (I usually wash them by hand but didn't do it the night before). I made the bed in Cody's old room. (the bed has been naked since he moved out a couple of weeks ago). I cleaned the kitchen, put away newspapers, dusted, cleaned 3 bathrooms (well, okay...I forgot to clean the mirrors but John looked after that), cleared out all the "dog stuff" and put it in the garage. I cleared out all the papers in my office and stuffed them into my roll top desk. Then I jumped in the shower. Off I went to clean off the cars and noticed that the neighbourhood guy who cleans our driveway forgot to clean our front walkway. I grab the shovel and shovel off 1 1/2 feet of snow from a 25 foot walkway. (so much for the shower!)

We did it! We put the 3 dogs and cat in John's car and he took them for a drive. I jumped in my car and drove into Ottawa for my lunch date. Phew!

And...I promise...I won't let the house get to be a disaster any more (ha!)

Thursday, December 6, 2007

Family Photo Shoot

We had some fun yesterday taking some photos using a remote. It's a little difficult to organize 3 people, 3 dogs, and a cat! It was easier this year though...it's the first time we have used a remote. In the past, I set the timer and ran back and forth. I'll post our final selection before Christmas.

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

Things change

Our son Cody has been home for the past seven months, after spending two years in Theatre School. He lived a 6 hour drive away so we only saw him a few times a year. He moved home after graduating to work and save some money. He has saved enough, he's found a place to live in Toronto, and he'll be leaving us for good on Thursday.

After spending 20 years raising him to be independant, it's time to let him go and live his dreams. I'm so very excited for him, but it's bittersweet for sure.

He's going to have so much fun. He'll be sharing a 2 bedroom apartment with Mike, who graduated from Theatre at the same time. They'll be living one floor above 2 very beautiful young women from the same program. I'm sure they'll go through lots of ups and downs together as they work their jobs, and all try to "make it" in acting.

But I'll miss him.